負責其實可以很自由

負責與責任之所以令人痛苦是因為面對可能後果的恐懼與實際承擔後果的壓力。沒有後果帶來的恐懼壓力,負責與責任就是自由發揮創造力與影響力。權力伴隨負責與責任,對自己的負責與責任、對自己的權力,現在常稱為自我賦權。這是真正自由的必要條件。自由不是逃避責任。逃避感覺一點都不自由,反而讓恐懼壓力飆升。自由是有選擇的權力,真正的自由伴隨負責與責任,而在目前的社會與人性發展狀態下,自由是有一定程度恐懼壓力的。達成真正自由的訣竅在於選擇自己「想要的」壓力。什麼是想要的壓力?

Enduring & Inaction: The Poison Killing You & Society

The way we grew up, how we have been parenting children for so many generations as a species, is the root cause of why we have unconsciously created a society no one wants to live in and is detrimental to other species on Earth and our natural environment. We don’t commit to proactive change if we believe it’s painful and impossible, especially when immediate ramifications are perceived like losing our incomes or losing people we are emotionally attached to or losing belonging. Even if we consciously want to commit to proactive change, we often fail to do so because we haven’t unhooked ourselves from these often subconscious negative core beliefs inhibiting us.

To Trust or Not To Trust?

It is painful to be untrustworthy. Betraying others is actually a reflection of one’s own self betrayal because people in our lives are mirrors of our internal fragments. Being untrustworthy is to be separate from ourselves and others, and separation is the root of suffering. Failed relationships with others are mirroring our failed relationships with ourselves. We need to live with ourselves for the totality of our life on earth. It needs to be a conscious choice for us to be truly committed to trust, to self awareness, to integration and responsibility. Trust, and love, needs to be a choice we make with our free will. In trust and love, we are free.