Your strengths are going to be forged in the fire of your difficulties. Make the thing you went through the best part of you. Instead of that thing being a shame, it becomes a virtue.
The door of suffering seems to be the most popular one, but it’s doesn’t have to be that way.
Meanings and beliefs are like lenses and will get bigger and thicker because of our focus (attention) on the physical proofs.
Positive focus is the natural state; we don’t need to learn how to do it. The reason why we focus negatively and then have unwanted results is because we were trained out of our own compass to conform the expectations of the family and society we were born into.